When the Wording is Broken

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just do it, pressure, relax and write, Short story, thoughts, unicorns, When the normal doesn't work, writing

Yes. You heard me correctly.

My wording needs a bit of glue, or tape, or magic. Something. One of my writer friends likes to point out all the places I can submit short stories, because she knows I like them…and maybe because she thinks I write good. Maybe. She found a press looking for equine stories, including not only horses, but unicorns or pegasuses… pegasi… pegai? No one seems to know the plural form of pegasus.

Anyway…

The call of writing a story with a unicorn was strong. So I brainstormed and came up with an idea. I have about ten handwritten pages of notes: backstory, character development, the action…SO MUCH EMOTION.

And about a week ago I opened a new word doc and typed the title… CHASING HAPPY.

Then I stared at the screen.

And stared at the screen.

After a while of doing that I gave up. The writing wasn’t going to happen.

Well, in a week I have added about 250 words. Wow. That sucks. And if you read the words, you’d be even less impressed.

BUT WHY? WHY ARE THE WORDS BROKEN?

I have the whole thing in my head, images, scenes, even a bit of dialogue.

Suddenly, the whole forming a sentence skill vanished.

I have no idea what’s going on. No idea. And I’m not letting it bother me, because this will pass. It always does.

But what is stopping me?

That dreaded beginning. We all know I don’t handle beginnings well, at all. I love killer opening lines and I don’t have one.

Could be the problem.

The fact that I would love to write a fabulous piece and have it accepted, but THEN IT MUST BE PERFECT AND I MUST BE PERFECT! Demanding perfection of oneself tends to cause issues.

Very likely the culprit.

Or maybe, just maybe, it isn’t ready to be written. I only think it is.

Yup.

Or all of the above.

Ab. So. Freakin. Lutely.

Though I can’t really tell, for all the usual fear is being rather quiet. Quiet fear is the worst. It hides. It sneaks around. It is impossible to drag from the shadows and face. But it’s there. Must be. Or I’d have a story.

Right?

I’m not stressing. Cause we all know that would make it all four hundred million times worse.

I’m staying in my main character’s head. I’m keeping my theme close to my heart. I’m holding onto the awesome images I have conjured in my mind.

Submissions open on September 1st, so I have time. A little.

In writing…or in everyday life…there are thoughts, possibly hidden, that keep us from doing what we want. Strange whispers hover at the edge of dreams, making us sit when we want to stand or run.

We face those moments of action time and time again. The moment we stomp on the fear and get things done break the barriers…usually.

My normal, JUST-DO-IT didn’t work for me this time. Weird.

The panic hasn’t set in, the racing freight train of failure hasn’t crashed into the station…just this odd confused calm where I shrug and say, “Wording hard. Sentences don’t compute.” My fingers stumble on the keyboard.

But it won’t last forever. I am prepared to battle for the opportunity to tell this story. One word at a time. For my unicorn! (Disclaimer: the unicorn in my story will not be like this…think darker)

The Great Habit War

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bad habits, be better, god habits, habits, just do it, writing

First of all, who read that title as the Hobbit war? *snort* Cause that’s what I saw after I typed it.

Anywhoooo… onward with the topic!

Habits are strange creatures. Some you want. Some you don’t. Some you try to get rid of and others you try desperately to trap and keep.

Webster’s Dictionary says a habit is a thing done often and, hence, easily, or a usual way of doing. It’s a way of living. There are bad habits, take my munching on all the food I can find late at night. There are good habits such as brushing my teeth twice a day, everyday.

Funny, when I went to write a good habit, I paused, struggling to think of one. However, the bad? A list formed immediately in my head. And to top that off, I thought of a bucket load of habits I wish I had.

Habits are things of our own creation. The ones we have, we have to work to keep. The ones we want, we have to fight into submission. The ones we don’t want, we must battle with swords. But that weapon better be sharp, because those little devils can have a firm grip.

 

Writers write. As simple as that. And we all write at our own pace. Seriously, I see tweets of people who wrote 5K words that day or a ‘mere 2K’… not to mention those that write 10K a day.

Truth? That makes me feel incredibly inadequate.

And not because I didn’t write that many words, but because I let the day go by without writing any. And why did I allow this? Fear to open the document? Yup… a little.

But really? That habit of writing has fled. I neglected it.

*pauses to let everyone yell at me or shake their heads… and give general looks of disapproval*

I am not happy with me. I have words I want to write, that I am even excited to write, but I don’t do it.

And that’s what it comes down to. JUST DO IT.

Create the habits that will give you that warm feeling of accomplishment, that will make you a better person. And, for me, that procrastination habit… that “Hey, look cookies, I’ll just eat a few (hundred)… that oh, well, it’s already noon, I don’t need to workout… all those habits that hold me back? Yeah, they need to go.

It’s going to be a fight. That JUST DO IT phrase is short and sweet, it looks simple, but it isn’t, especially for someone like me who gets pretty comfy in my ruts.

Create the life you want. Find the strength to let go of the bad habits that bring you down and grab onto the habits that will make you soar.

Because soaring is what we were put on this Earth to do!